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How to Create the Perfect Questions for Your Legacy Interview
Every story begins with a question. When it comes to capturing your loved one’s memories through The Legacy Project, the right questions help bring out the laughter, lessons, and life moments that make their story so special.
This part of the process isn’t about getting it “right” — it’s about creating space for reflection and connection. Here’s how to start.
Think About the Chapters of Their Life
Break their story into chapters — childhood, early adulthood, family life, career, or retirement. Think about what moments shaped them, what challenges they overcame, and what memories always make them smile.
Example Questions
- What was your childhood home like?
- Who were your closest friends growing up?
- How did you meet your partner?
- What was your proudest moment as a parent?
Capture the Everyday Stories
Some of the best memories come from simple, everyday moments — the family traditions, routines, and little quirks that make someone who they are.
Example Questions
- What did a “normal” day look like when you were raising your family?
- What was your favourite family tradition?
- What was your go-to meal or special recipe?
- What’s a small moment that still makes you laugh today?
End with Open-Hearted Curiosity
Give them space to share whatever comes to mind. Sometimes the most beautiful stories appear when they feel completely free to speak from the heart.
Example Questions
- Is there anything you’d like to share that we haven’t talked about yet?
- What do you hope your family remembers about your life?
- If you could leave one message for future generations, what would it be?
Ask About Life Lessons & Reflections
This is where the wisdom shines through. Ask about what they’ve learned, what they’d do differently, or what advice they’d pass down to future generations.
Example Questions
- What’s something life has taught you that you wish you knew earlier?
- What does happiness mean to you now?
- What advice would you give your younger self?
- What would you like your grandchildren to remember about you?
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final tip
You don’t need to have a long list — even 10 thoughtful questions can spark hours of meaningful conversation. Bring curiosity, patience, and love to the session, and the stories will naturally flow.
If you’d like help crafting your list, I can guide you through it step-by-step to make sure every question reflects your family’s story and values.